100 Dates in Houston: Malcolm X and Mr. Hairline

100 Dates in Houston: Malcolm X and Mr. Hairline

I am now three weeks into my move to Texas, and it’s been wonderful. My social life is thriving, there’s always something to do, and best of all – I live right on a lake! Of course, I miss my family and sometimes feel the pangs of loneliness that are typical of solo...
100 Dates in Houston: Love is a numbers Game

100 Dates in Houston: Love is a numbers Game

Remember that dream you quit a long time ago? What if an angel appeared and said you had given up too soon, just moments before your big breakthrough? Personally, I would be sick to my stomach. Hopefully, what I’m about to tell you will save you from quitting too...
Black Elitism: The Great Divide

Black Elitism: The Great Divide

Are we ready to talk about black elitism?  The background: Attorney and media personality, Eboni K Williams, was asked by spiritual advisor and life coach, Iyanla Vanzant, if she would date a bus driver. Her reply was “if he owns the bus.”  She received...
Angry Black Woman

Angry Black Woman

For the first time in my life, I’m an ANGRY black woman. I can tell you exactly how it happened. Long story short, I’ve always wanted to be married.  Growing up in the black church, I remember being told as early as 12, “Your breasts are for your...